polite
Cross references: 1. civil po.lite \p*-'li-t\ aj [L politus, fr. pp. of polire] 1a: of, relating to, or having the characteristics of advanced culture 1b: marked by refined cultured interests and pursuits esp. in arts and bel les lettres 2a: showing or characterized by correct social usage 2b: marked by consideration, tact, deference, or courtesy 2c: gentle or moderate in tone - po.lite.ly av